"Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad." -Proverbs 12:25

"Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad." -Proverbs 12:25
Midnight Blue (1963): Jazz guitarist Kenny Burrell featuring Stanley Turrentine on tenor saxophone, Major Holley on double bass, Bill English on drums and Ray Barretto on conga. Midnight Blue is one of Burrell’s best-known works for Blue Note Records. In 2005, NPR included the album in its "Basic Jazz Library", describing it as "one of the great jazzy blues records".

He said, She said...

"You are not designed for everyone to like you - Wise Man Phil

FRAGILE: Sting, Yo Yo Ma, Dominic Miller & Chris Botti

My Prayer

Hedge: a row of bushes or small trees planted close together, especially when forming a fence or boundary; hedgerow: small fields separated by hedges. Any barrier or boundary: a hedge of stones.

Between The Hedges

The University of Georgia was the first team in the south to display hedges around the playing field at Sanford Stadium. The story has it that a man by the name of Charlie Martin pitched the idea of the hedges. Martin was the Business Manager of the UGA Athletic Department in the 1920's & 30's. Martin claimed that he received his inspiration for the horticultural gem while attending the Rose Bowl, where he saw the beautiful hedge of roses in the stadium that bordered the playing surface in Pasadena, Calif.

Sanford Stadium

On October 12, 1929, when the bulldogs played their first game in their new stadium against Yale, all eyes could see the newly planted hedges that surrounded the playing field. Since roses were not a suitable choice for the Athens climate the university decided upon using an "English privet hedge" (privet Ligustrum hedge) at Sanford Stadium. Georgia's 15-0 victory over Yale on that sweltering day was the first game "between the hedges" for the Georgia Bulldogs. Currently six other SEC teams play between the hedges: Ole Miss, Tennessee, Mississippi State, Arkansas, South Carolina and Alabama. If I forgot one I apologize, but really there is only on game played "between the hedges" and that game is played at Sanford Stadium in Athens, Georgia.

English privet hedge 

"Between the Hedges"

In addition to being a great cosmetic touch, the hedges have proven to be an effective, though perhaps unintended, measure of crowd control, as well. Even though a major traffic path to exit the stadium from both stands runs directly alongside the hedges, fans have only stormed the field and torn down the goal-posts once in the entire history of Sanford Stadium. This truth is supported in fact by the chain-link fence that runs in between the hedges.

Pretty clever.

Vince Dooley

No one has spent more time "between the hedges" than Vince Dooley. The legendary coach Dooley paced the sidelines for more than twenty years. He was the coach at Georgia from 1964 to 1988.

Coach Dooley has said many times since his departure that "the hedges are something magical."

I have to agree.

The hedges on the football field have created a great mental image and reminder to me that God can, and will, put a protective hedge around his children if, and when, we ask Him to.

That is not to imply that we as humans won't experience heartache and failures. The experience of the loss of loved one and living in the "valley of life" will fall upon the believer and non-believer alike. This will occur more times than we would like to think or imagine. We will lose a job, we will eventually get bad news from the doctor and everyone of us will become very acquainted with trials and tribulations, but in the midst of all of that I do believe that God can, and will, protect us.

I have heard it said more than once; God will not take away the storm, but He will be with us while we're in the storm.

He will protect our emotions, our attitude and most importantly He will protect our faith and hope in Him.

God is my "Protective Hedge".

And it is, and will be, between those hedges I chose to live the rest of my life. Honestly, I can't believe that I lived a much different life in the not so distant past and I can't even begin to understand or believe how I could live any differently than I am living now.

I will say it again; "God is my Protective Hedge".

He is my hope and my faith is deeply rooted in Him.

In my prayer life over the past five years I have been praying for a "hedge of protection" around my family in "seven" different areas. This past week I decided that I wanted to put that prayer in writing and refer to it every day for the rest of my life. Whether I'm in the car or in the shower, whether I'm sitting in the bleachers at one of my children's games or I'm cutting the grass, I'm going to quietly pray these words to God every day and remind myself, as well as my Savior, that I need Him in my life. I will always need my personal savior to be my guide, to be my compass and to be my protector.

I can't live without Him.

My faith is in Him.

I'm not asking for prestige, power and position. I'm just asking for His protection.

This is my prayer; "The Prayer for God's Protective Hedge in My Life"

"Protective Hedge"

It is my prayer that you, God, will forgive me for all that I have done that does not match up to Your word, Your way and Your will for my life.

It is my plea, desire and hope that you will put a protective hedge around my children spiritually, emotionally, mentally, relationally, physically, financially and socially.

Spiritually create a desire within each of my children to come to know you in a personal way and protect the Godly knowledge and wisdom that has found its way into their heart and mind. Bless them with the desire to become committed to You and to serve You all the days of their life. Bless them with a Christ filled life.

Provide a protective hedge around my children emotionally. Protect their feelings and create in them the proper perspective when dealing with success and failure. Aid them to handle the high of highs and the lows of low. Never allow them to get too high or too low. Create a sense of wanting to protect other people's feelings they come in contact with. Protect them from feelings of complete despair and depression; help them to live life with a high emotional IQ. 

Mentally provide a protective hedge around their thoughts and their words. Bless them with the ability to learn and discern. Create within the ability to comprehend new material and to intellectually excel in the classroom and the workplace. Bless their minds and always keep them from entertaining depravity. Help their thoughts to be clear and their behavior to be a reflection of making good decisions.

Please put a protective hedge around them relationally. Protect their friendships, dating relationships and their relationships with their parents and siblings. Most of all protect the family they will create someday in the future. Begin protecting their "future" spouses and their family now. Break the cycle of divorce in our family with me and bless the boys, and Reese, with one spouse, and one family, for a lifetime. I pray that their spouses will be men and women of God.

Place around them a hedge of physical protection. Bless them with good health and protect them from physically harming themselves or another. Protect them in every athletic endeavor and when they are behind the wheel driving. Please protect them physically. Please protect them at all times. In the end, take me before you would ever take them.

Provide a protective hedge around them financially. Help and aid them to earn, tithe and save their money. Bless them with the knowledge that everything comes from You and that we are to be mindful of that each day we work. Give them a career over a job and help them to always remember that they are to be respectful of their employer and that they are to glorify God in workplace. Help them learn how to "fish" so they can eat for a lifetime. Bless their money and the relationship they have with it and the decisions they make concerning it.

Socially put a protective hedge around them. Protect their reputation and their honor. Aid them in becoming leaders and not followers among their peer group. Bless them with discernment when it comes to the choices they make socially. Protect them from people, and groups, that don't care about them or their future. Help their belief in You to resonate with everyone they come in contact with and to display the type character that shows to everyone a person that is very comfortable in their own skin. Help them to be a winner.

God put a protective hedge around my wife and me spiritually, emotionally, mentally, relationally, physically, financially and socially.

Spiritually put a protective hedge around our relationship with You. Give us the desire to read Your word and to spend quality time in prayer. Develop a heart in us that is obedient to Your commandments and Your Will. Help us to live in the center of Your will for the rest of our days.

Bless us emotionally and protect us from living solely by our emotions. Help us to acknowledge our emotional state, but never to depend on our emotions to lift us above any of life's troubling circumstances. Protect us from over reacting to a situation or under estimating another's emotional state. Helps us to develop a personality that is calm, cool and collective, and that chooses to respond in love instead of reacting in anger. Help us to protect each others feelings.

Mentally protect us from thoughts of despair and depressions. Help us to gain and retain knowledge of You through Your word and at our place of employment. I pray for wisdom in our lives. Please bless us with wisdom and discernment in all we do.

Put a protective hedge around us relationally. Bless our relationship with You, with our children and with each other. Bless our relationship with our parents and siblings. Bless our relationships with others and create within us the ability to leave people in better shape and condition after we have met them than they were before hand. Bless all of our relationships and help us to live in peace with everyone.

Create a protective hedge around us physically. Develop a strong desire in us to remain healthy and to create healthy lifestyles. Aid us in striving to be physically fit. Protect us during the day when we travel our separate ways for work and protect all those that come in our path. Protect our home from physical, relational and spiritual damage. Bless us with a strong body and appreciation for good health. Help us to lead healthy lives and bless us with great health.

Provide a protective hedge around us financially. Help and aid us to earn, tithe and save our money. Bless us with the knowledge that everything comes from You and that we are to be mindful of that each day we work. Give us a career over a job and help us to always remember that we are to be respectful to our employer and that we are to glorify God in workplace. Help us learn how to "fish" so that we can eat for a lifetime. Bless our money and the relationship we have with it and the decisions we make concerning it. Help us to be faithful with our money and to help others with what we have been blessed with.

And finally, put a protective hedge around us socially. Aid us in developing a lifestyle that displays our faith in You. Help us to be a witness by the way we behave and not what we say. Help us to be leaders in our family, church and community. Aid my wife and me in protecting each others honor and reputation. Help us to put ourselves in the best position to succeed and not fail socially, and always to be people that are perfectly comfortable in our own skin privately and publicly.

God I want to thank you for hearing my prayer and for being my hedge of protection.

In the end, I want to play the game of life and to live daily between Your protective hedges.


sbb 1.2.11